Premature Ejaculation, Erection Difficulties, Sexual Problems:
Many men suffer premature
ejaculation and erection problems in silence because they can find
it difficult to discuss their problems with someone else. This
unfortunately means that many men suffer unnecessarily when they
could so easily get effective help.
It's common for men with erection or
premature ejaculation difficulties to develop irrational fears and
worries about sex. Often they will make excuses to avoid sex such as
being too tired or not in the mood.
Regrettably this can create added
stress within the relationship especially if the partner is unaware
of the real problems. A partner may feel that the problem lays with
them or that the sufferers feelings have changed towards them. This
can lead to misunderstandings, hurt feelings and arguments.
When a man has erection difficulties
it usually means that he either cannot get a firm enough erection to
achieve satisfactory penetration or that he loses his erection
Frustratingly many sufferers can
achieve strong erections during masturbation but lose them when
attempting full sex with their partners. This can and does often
lead to further misunderstandings in relationships.
The inability to get or sustain an
erection can be a truly devastating experience for a man and may
leave him with feelings of failure or that 'he is not a man'. These
feelings can fuel his inability to get erections and a kind of 'catch
twenty two' situation can occur. Because the man fears he won't get
an erection, this fear alone can actually prevent him from getting one, and so
the cycle begins.
Premature Ejaculation - or coming too
quickly - is an extremely common condition especially in men under
40 years of age.
Ejaculating too quickly occasionally
is not really a problem, most men have had this happen to them at
some time. However if it becomes a regular event then it can become
a major worry and many men feel under great pressure and stress when
it happens to them.
As with erection problems, many men
who suffer premature ejaculation when having sex with their partners
are able to control their ejaculation during masturbation.
Premature ejaculation often begins
when we have a new sexual partner but it can also occur with long
term partners as well.
Problems and Premature Ejaculation
Suffering from erection or premature
ejaculation problems can be very upsetting but let me say straight
away that there is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of or
embarrassed about if you suffer with these difficulties.
They are extremely common, literally
thousands of men suffer from one or the other of these problems at
some point in their lives. So don't allow yourself to worry
unnecessarily, particularly with such nonsense as 'not being a man'
whatever that might be.
Causes of erection and premature
ejaculation problems vary. In some cases they are physiological, in
other words physical in nature, in other cases they are
For physiological problems you should
see your G.P. and he or she will recommend an appropriate treatment
However some of the most common causes
of erection and premature ejaculation problems are anxiety, stress
and having irrational fears about sex or sexual prowess and are more
psychologically orientated. These conditions respond exceptionally
well to Hypnotherapeutic techniques.
I fully appreciate how uncomfortable
some men can feel when discussing issues abut sexual performance.
Having been in practice since 1994 I am very used to dealing with
such issues and I can assure you I will do my utmost to put you at
ease to reduce any embarrassment to the absolute minimum.
I offer you an empathetic,
professional approach, governed by a strict code of ethics to ensure
your complete confidentiality.
To discover the
benefits of Hypnotherapy for yourself
call me on Peterborough
more information or to arrange a free initial consultation or
appointment. Robert Griffin Hypnotherapy is located
on the outskirts of Peterborough near the Fitzwilliam Hospital.
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